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a man does not ejaculate to satisfy a woman. Ideally "IF" you were able to control yourself that much then you should wait until the woman has climaxed, because once you ejaculate you will lose your erection, and to satisfy her you would have use other means to "satisfy" her (manual stimulation)
I'd say things aren't good for you if he's into drugs and now he's decided he's bi-sexual and cybercheating when he's "wired." Cheating is cheating.
I have often wondered if there really is acutally a category such as "bi-sexual." I can understand gay, lesbian, but bi? I'm not buying that one. That's my own opinion. With the diseases going around in our modern society and he's bi-sexual, I'd be very careful. Do you think he's worth it? I think you deserve better. You have two strikes against you .... drugs and the fact he's bi.
I grew up in the 50s and the big heart-throb was James Dean. He was every teenagers idol and broke the mold for freeing the 40s and 50s way of thinking. It gave the kids a little more freedom and gave us another slant on life. About a year after his death (died in a car accident at the age of 23) his biography said he was bi-sexual. James Dean made quotes to his roommate on this subject and said "I just wanted to experience everything life has to offer." Was he bi? Nope! In fact he only had one true love and that was a female Pier' Angela. So, the jury is out as far as I'm concerned on people who are labeled bi-sexual. You either like men or women whatever your sex may be, but both ... I doubt it.
AnswerOf course he's always been bi. You don't decide to be bi. Disregard what the biphobe posted on here. Bisexuality is a natural sexual orientation. It means gender doesn't matter, or is only a small factor. It makes as much sense as race not mattering to a person. It does not mean you need both genders to feel satisfied, so tell your husband that and that if he continues to cybercheat or cheat at all you might divorce. Unless of course you're into swinging in which case go ahead and give him the green light. It also does not mean there's an increased risk of STDs. Anyone who is promiscuous and doesn't practice safe sex is at increased risk for STDs whether they are straight, gay, or bi.
As for the drugs part. What drugs is he taking and how often? Does it seem like an addiction or just a thing he does from time to time. Many people do drugs in moderation. Remember, alcohol is a drug. Is his drug use interfearing with his responsibilities? If so, that's not a good sign, and you might want to stage an intervention.
Hand practice is another name for masturbation. Apart from religious teachings, there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation. So you don't need to quit. However, if you wish to stop or reduce it, there are things to keep in mind and to try. Sexual compulsions often come from a sense of lack in one's life. You may do this more if you are bored, slightly depressed, or have blocked goals. If you are living in poverty and have difficulty making ends meet, you might turn to masturbation or sexual activity more, particularly if you are male, as a means to make up for the damage to the ego that the situation causes. Sometimes, excessive masturbation is just the symptom of not having a satisfactory relationship with someone. So if you find the right person, you may feel less of a need to masturbate. You may wish to distract yourself and keep busy. If reducing masturbation is acceptable, then you may consider setting limits, similar to how a problem drinker who is not an alcoholic sets limits on their drinking.
All guys are different. If you really good at getting a guy's attention, then that's great, but if you more of a shy person then ask someone who is for their advice and help. Ask your friends to talk to him for you to see what he thinks of you. See if you click and talk to him. See if he really is right for you. Make suttle changes to yourself. I don't mean change yourself you should still be you, but where a style of clothes he likes or put on some perfume before you go out. Don't be afraid to talk to him. Guys like it when you take the first step. You never know maybe he was too scared to say anything.
A few ways. You could look and listen to see what his interests are and use those to break the ice. Like his favorite sports team or place to eat or sport to do. You can also dress differently than you usually do. Not slutty looking just different. Brighter colors, skirts instead of pants, perfume, too. Dont make it too noticeable or he'll think your desperate. You could also have a party or get together for an activity and invite him personally. If he attends be attentive to him and get to know him. Tell him this"I wanna go out wit u, u got dat?"tada
BE YOURSELF! DARN! THATS ALL YOU GOTTA DO!
Be yourself please! If he is really your soulmate he will like you for you!! <('.')>
If u want u can be ur self.But if if u want the guy ur crushin on to really notice u, you should flirt with him a bit and ask him out on a date.
one simple thing you can do is say hi once a day every day. it'll work hell begin to notice, and remember you more. But don't walk up to him and do it. do it when your passing in the halls or something. make and keep interest by being mysterious. trust me, it worked ON me