Lie down and take your clothes off and start masturbating and think of things or people that turn you on. Don't Be afraid to try new things. My girlfriend (No I am not a lesbian) and her roommate hump their pillows and it sure turns them on! It seems weird and stupid, but it works.
Why do you need to know about most women? Surely it's more important to know if the woman you are having sex with is open to this? The only way you'll find out is to ask her. Or tell her gently that this is something that would turn you on, that you wouldn't try to kiss her afterwards if she didn't want you to or any other provisos that she would be allowed to put in place. Be honest with her. And if she says no, then respect that.You do need to understand that everyone has different sexual preferences. If one person may like something there are others that wont. And there is nothing wrong with it.
by putting ur tongue on the pussy and liccking it until she cums
Because it is all about him. When he is no longer the focus of attention then the anxiety builds. He needs to be at the center....always! After My N broke up with me he stuck around and basically "watched" me and the moment he thought I had been with another man it infuriated him and he was gone. It's a control thing I think. Ns like to think they are the best sex you have ever had. They also like to think that you are so besotted and reliant on them that you would not even entertain the thought of sleeping with someone else. So when you do, whether you have been used and dumped by the N or not, they are angry because 1) Their ego has taken a battering 2) They realise their control over you has wained 3) They percieve you as a whore and this disgusts them Regardless, the N will always be mad with you for something whether you are with them or not.
Yes it is strange, but it could be one of two things (or possibly both.) You may need a mentor in your life and look up to a certain woman, or women and at the ages they are they most certainly should have more knowledge than you, or, you're looking for a mother figure that you didn't have in the mother you had. At any rate the age gap is way too far apart. You can love someone like a second mom, but it's not romantic love. Be sure you aren't getting two kinds of love mixed up. Marcy