Everyone is beautiful just the way they are. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! You don't need to change anything about yourself because it is the way God intended you to be, and you are beautiful!!!! Everyone is beautiful just the way they are. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! You don't need to change anything about yourself because it is the way God intended you to be, and you are beautiful!!!!
First off your boyfriend should get a spine and say "no!" Ask him if that word is in his vocabulary. I would handle it by telling the girl "hands off" but I'd have a talk with that boyfriend of yours and tell him you don't like it and he has the control of saying "no." If he refuses, kick this guy to the curb and start dating again. Good luck Marcy It's all your boyfriend..BUT you can just kiss or hug your boyfriend when she is around and make sure she leaves...GIVE HER THE LOOK..Show this girl who he is with so she knows better then to cross the line. Answer The best way to chase someone away is to be happy. If your boyfriend is a standup guy he is tellng her no anyway. I wouldn't suggest being territorial, this can back fire on you. Be nice to this person unless she gives YOU cause to not be. Flirting with your boyfriend is a compliment, isn't it? Your boyfriend will be more impressed by this than anything else and its really about the two of you, not him and this other girl. You can't control anyone's behavior but your own. I would say it is fine to address this with your boyfriend, let him know it makes you uncomfortable. Its then up to him to behave the way he will behave and up to the girl to find another target. I'm soon to have a degree in psychology and I believe the best way is to be nice to her. It sounds strange but it's reverse psychology. People want what they can't have, they also love confrontation. If you give a girl the idea that you are upset by her behaviour with your boyfriend, she will continue and have the time of her life! Even if she doesn't really want your guy! As for your boyfriend, if you start acting all jealous and bitchy, he will wonder why you care so much; after all he's not your property right? He might even start to see you as possessive or insecure. The best thing to do is to wander over to the conversation, relax, give a big smile and join in. Pretend you are at a party and the girl is someone you want to meet. Pay the girl a compliment and MEAN IT, don't be fake as that will be obvious. You could say something like "Wow I can see why he's chatting to you, you're gorgeous!" Continue to chat to her and your boyfriend for a bit, show your best side, keep the conversation positive and then MOVE AWAY. Go and chat to another group of people, don't keep looking over...mingle! Show that you're there to have a good time. Your boyfriend will love you even more for this as it shows that you trust him, you're a nice person and you're not a nagging headache. You will look secure, confident and utterly desirable in your boyfriend's eyes. After all, how many girls would have the security and 'better person' attitude to do this? It's not the most obvious course of action and therefore you will stand out as being fabulous. Answer
In my opinion, she doesnt want to move fast. She wants to become friends with you before you move to the next level. Just take it slow, and take her to the movies some time as friends, just dont pressure her into doing anything that you both dont feel comfortable with.(That is a must) You're a lucky guy to have such a smart new female friend. She is saving you a lot of problems by not rushing into things and saving hurt feelings are both sides. You get to know someone by dating them, talking about your hopes and dreams, what type of career you want to get into (even if it's being a mechanic, and not an executive position) what hobbies you like and also getting to know her friends and letting her get to know yours. If your family lives nearby bring her around for a family dinner or even a visit. Be yourself and above all, if you really care about her compliment her when she looks pretty, buy her the odd bouquet of flowers and when you get to know her better perhaps a nice simple chain or bracelet. Just enjoy each other. You've got a great gal there so hope it works out. Good luck Marcy
If a guy is very flirtacious with other girls, then you DO NOT want to get involved with him. He sounds like he would just make you jealous and worried about him and question his feelings about you, like you are right now. I would move on and look for someone else who you can clearly read his feelings for you.
Some times a guy that acts flirtacious with other girls is just trying to make you jelous... check to see if he finds times while his is flirting with other girls to look over at you... Also if they smile at you when they look over at you while flirting with other girls... its a bonus :)
If anything he respects your opinon because you are either his friend or simply a girl. Men listen to other women when it comes to their physical appearance because they want to attract the opposite sex.
If you are interested in him then show some interest in him. It appears in this modern world that a woman can ask a man out on a date, so why not? If you don't feel this way about him then shine bright ... you probably gave him some good advice.