not all Asian girls are the same or even similar.. and of course Asian Americans or western asians are very different from asians who live in Asia.. just be yourself and find somenoe that suits you
You know when you don't have to ask about it from other people.
You will know. Can you see him as a part of your future every day. If you want children, will he make a good father? If you don't want children, is he okay with not having children? Can you stand to live with him and wake up to him every morning? Can you support each other financially? Can each of you support each others dreams and goals and be supportive of them?
you'll know once you've seen him/her getting old with you.
Your phrasing seems to suggest that there is a right "one to marry." My wife is convinced that she received divine revelation from God that I was her husband. For me, I did a lot of thinking and asked a lot of questions to make sure that our goals overlapped in large measure. Even though we have very similar backgrounds and beliefs, the way we went about knowing was very, very different. The way that you know might be very unique. The one suggestion that I have is that you and he agree on what marriage is and what a good marriage is like.
If he still call you alot and be acting jealous when he see you with another boy.
I would not tolerate that type of behaviour. When he doesnt call you back, ignore him. Dont phone him. If you feel this man is worth it and he has some good qualities I would tell him to stop. If he doesnt and he wont if hes an abuser, dump him. Then make him sweat by no contact. This will either force him to look at what a jerk he is or he will find another victim. He has alot of control over you by not calling you back. He gets to go out with other women,friends etc, while you wait for him to call. He is also setting up how he wants the relationship to be which is he can fool around with other women while you are in the shadows. Why do you want an alky who is dry, why not find a non alky or one who is in recovery. This guy sounds like a waste of time.
You gotta grow a pair dude, in life what you regret most is the things you "didn't" do. Chances are she is just as you. If you know she likes you then go up to her WHEN SHE IS ALONE that part is crutial don't what to embarrass her. Now once you have her to yourself and there's nobody around...then by this point I assume you know a little about whats she's into if not ask her friends. Then say something like "What cha doing this weekend?" She'll say "Nothing" or "Why do ask" then you think of something she's interested in like a movies and say well I was thinking about going to see ........ I thought you might want to see it. if she says yes then your set, if she say's she's seen it already or maybe or worst case she says no, then say "well I think your pretty cool and I'd like to hang out with you sometime, if she says yes get her number, if she hesitates, says shes busy or says no then say "ok that's cool, if you change your mind heres my number, (give her your number) a lot of girls are nervious about giving their number out, offer her yours and you'll put her at ease. Then walk away non chalant don't look hurt or nervious. Just wait for her to make a move and ignore her until she comes up to you. Girls like confidence, they don't want a guy that's shy, Also it's good if you seem unaffected by rejection, girls don't like guys that are too easy, they want a guy that mysterious, play a little hard to get, girls want most what they think they can't have.