You don't say whether you just want to enjoy yourselfand (I hope) give pleasure to others, too - or whether you hope to earn your living that way. In either case, it might be useful to get trained by a trustworthy, wellestablisheddominatrix. If you want to go professional, get legal advice! This is very important indeed. I gather that there are a few lawyers who specialize in this kind of area. You may also want totake someclasses in dungeon management. :) Joncey
It's impossible to be completely objective but generally separating boys and girls serves no purpose other than alienating one sex from another.